By David Blanchette
You cant pick your family, the saying goes, but many people do just that when deciding how to open, run and sustain a small business.
According to the Family Owned Business Institute, there are 5.5 million family businesses in the United States and those companies contribute 57% of the nations gross domestic product, employ 63% of the workforce and account for 78% of new job creation.
However, less than one-third of family businesses survive into a second generation, only 12% make it to the third generation and just three out of 100 are around by the fourth generation.

So whats the secret to keeping a family business going through multiple generations?
A key part of a multi-generational family business is having a family that can work together, said Barry Seidman, the third-generation owner of the Ashley Outlet Store, formerly Barneys Furniture, in Springfield. Which doesnt always mean that they get along, but the bottom line is they can all work together and they are all working for the same goal, and at the end of the day they all appreciate each other. Thats not as easy as it may sound.
Barneys Furniture was founded in 1939 by Seidmans grandfather, Bernard "Barney" Seidman. Seidmans father took over the business in 1943 and Barry joined the family business in 1981. They have always sold furniture through retail stores.
The challenge of running a family business is that you work with your family all of the time, Seidman said. When everything is working well your family is all pulling in the same direction and succeeding together, and that is extremely rewarding.
Seidman said family businesses have to work harder to succeed because they are often in competition with larger chain stores, which makes multi-generational customer loyalty essential.
Returning customers are also a major part of the four-generation success of Evans Construction Co. of Springfield, which was founded in 1913 as Evans Brothers Construction. Another secret ingredient in that longevity recipe is treating all employees like family, whether they are or not. Hiring qualified people is a top priority, and we treat them right, pay them well and make sure theyre happy, said owner Don Evans, who added that a good family business needs to address minor problems right away before they become larger ones.

The reward is, after you complete a job you have a happy client. You can go around town and say, We built that job, Evans said. Its kind of a monument to our company on the projects that we do. Weve done a lot of the construction on downtown buildings that are still standing from the first generation of Evans Brothers Construction.
Butler Funeral Homes and Crematorium Tribute Center has been family-owned for five generations, and the three most recent generations are from owner Chris Butlers family. The business was founded in 1893, and Butler said a key to their staying power is that everyone is treated fairly and equally.
If youre going to be a part of the business as a family member, then you have to meet the expectations of your role just like anybody else in the business, Butler said. You need to set clear expectations, have clear communication, have the ability to separate family and business issues and not take the business home with you.
Butler said family business owners need to listen to their family members, employees, customers and the community, and above all, maintain a good reputation.
If the reputation that precedes you is not favorable, then the likelihood of continuing on to a second, third or fourth-generation business is not very good, Butler said. You have to work constantly and consistently to maintain a good reputation.
John Archer is the second-generation owner of AEC Fire Safety & Security in Springfield, a Springfield business that has sold fire safety and security equipment since 1965. Archer has a son who he hopes represents a third generation of ownership.
We are still locally owned and support local businesses. Buying local when we can is a good policy, Archer said. We are still small enough that we pretty much know all of our customers by name. When you call the office, you always get a person. When our customers call, everybody here is aware of what they mean to us as a business.Everybody told me years ago to never hire friends or relatives, but weve done both, Archer said. You learn from hard knocks and you get through it. Theres always going to be conflict with relatives, but it works out in the end.
Those family business conflicts can be good-natured and make customers smile if theyre not too serious, and thats a formula that has worked for Luke Lee Gaule and David Lee Gaule Auctioneers of Springfield, a fourth-generation business.
I might pick on some of the people at an auction and they might pick on me; the crowd is like my own family, said Luke Lee Gaule, the third-generation owner. Ill walk into an auction and give someone a harassing and theyll give me one right back.
Luke wanted to be a playboy as a young man until he took his fathers advice and went to auction school. Now, he works every day with his son, David, the fourth-generation owner.
Im doing what I want to do and Im doing it with my family. If youve got a job and you like it, it makes it a lot easier, Luke said. When I get up in the morning, I dont hate to go to work. The good Lord has blessed us and taken care of us.
David Blanchette is a freelance writer from Jacksonville and is also the co-owner of Studio 131 Photography in Springfield.